Writing to attract a lover
If you are faced with the daunting task of creating an advert about yourself to place online, on a singles dating agency, or you have met someone online and you want to grab their attention, then you must make sure that any advert or any missives/emails you send are going to grab their attention.
Some people believe that it is easier to spot a really nice person ‘online’ because you are stripped of all the things we usually use to assess people. You meet someone, you don’t know what they look like or how they behave: all you have is their thoughts and ideas, so you get to see the ‘real’ person, not just what someone looks like.
To attract a lover, you will need to write carefully and make sure that your spelling is good (particularly if your intended is educated, since they may set great store by this). You also need to ensure that your english grammar is good so that your words make perfect sense. Use an online grammar checking software application, to ensure that this is the case: don’t leave it to chance.
Don’t simply write about your never-ending love and how you can’t live without them. This will simply make you look needy and demanding.
If you’re writing an ad for a singles agency, try to be honest. If you pretend to look like Brad Pitt, but in reality look more like Danny de Vito, then it’s best just to be upfront about it from the start: you can even try injecting a little humour to win her heart, even if you’re not the most handsome man in the world!
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